Sorry for all the suffering I’m reading here however if you do your homework happiness awaits you. I have been married to my Cuban (47/57) for 17 years now, and we are still very much in love and happy. We have lived in Canada together for the last 15 years, travel annually back to Cuba to see family. She still has a strangle on my heart and spirit and is so intoxicating.
Would I do it again? NO, but for her YES over and over again. it is not for the faint at heart. It will test your very core, and understanding of what love really is.
So much you need to understand and learn about Cuba and Cubans. Too much to write here. DO YOUR home work and do not wallow in denial. If something doesn’t feel right or is too good to be true act on it. TRUST BUT VERIFY .
Unfortunately the one forum that use to dedicate itself to the heart of this matter discussed here has been shutdown and nothing has ever replaced it.