Just got back from Varadero. Met a Cuban guy on the street and got hooked up with this 21 year old girl, same age as me. She’s beautiful and looks innocent and she was amazing. I just loved everything about her. I have seen her twice after, she hugged me and kissed me and took photos but nothing else as she was too scared to do anything during day time because of the police. She has a 3 year old kid and she lives by her self in a tiny house/hut. She’s really poor. I met her only 2 days before leaving but I’m addicted to this girl, not just the sex. I wish I could have stayed to get to know her better. I don’t think she’s a pro but she’s definitely in the business. Anyway I’m willing to overlook the fact she’s selling her body and want to meet up with her next time I go to Varadero, hopefully before next summer. All my friends think I’m stupid for having feelings for her, but I just can get her out of my mind. I need some advice on what you guys think about it?

Dude,

Keep it in your pants and just smile when you think about her. Don’t be a sucker.

Even the girls who are not pros will do anything to get off the island. And, that doesn’t mean that she will stay with you when you bring her home.

Any “good” girl will live with her parents.

Plus, the fact that you met her in Varadero is odd. Cuban women are not allowed out there unless they know how to work the guards.

Your “girlfriend” is PRO PRO!

Break off all ties with her before you are poor and heartbroken.

You heard it here first.

thanks for the reply Publisher, also i should have added that i was staying in varadero but i went to her house in a near by village way past the guards and the bridge.

Keep it in perspective Dude. She probably has been ridden more than Seabiscuit. Think of it as “lust” rather than “love”  in Veradero

It’s easy to say she’s just like all the rest. It’s easy to say she only wants your money. That is the cliché. The rest of the cliché is that you only want her for sex. Sounds like that’s not true. The situation in Cuba is completely different than in anywhere else in the world. If you’d met a pro in the US I’d say run and hide, then get tested. There is a difference in Cuba. There is no other way to make money. Nothing. Nothing. You can’t just get a job and make ends meet. There are some women in Cuba working every night. But the vast majority are forced to work once in a while to make some money. You can tell the difference. In Cuba good people are forced to do things they wouldn’t have to do elsewhere out of necessity. Survival. Plain and simple. Put yourself in her shoes before you just take the easy way out and buy into the cliché. Love is hard to find.

Listen to your ZEN master…..

“When the penis gets hard the brain gets stupid”.

Be very very careful!!! if she lives in varadero, and you met her through a cuban guy, she is definately in the business and dont be fooled by the way she acts towards you. i used to live in cuba and had friends who would keep up (a very convincing) pretence with foreigners, but money was most definately the principal motive. If you like her alot go back and see her, youll have a good time, but dont fall in to the trap of thinking she feels the same way

MINE MAN IM CUBAN AND RIGHT NOW I LIVE IN FRANCE, I ACTUALLY I LIVE CLOSE TO VARADERO,IS VERY EASY TO GIVE YOU A BAD ADVICE BUT AT THE END IS YOUR DESICION IF YOU REALLY LIKE THE GIRL, AT THE END WE MAN LOVE EASY WOMEN BUT WHEN WE FOUND IT WE START TO ASK,I KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT THE BUSSINES BUT FOR INSTANCE MINE SISTER GET MARRIED THE SAME WAY AND SHE STILL WITH HIS HUSBAND.
AT THE END IS YOU CALL AND IF YOU ARE SURE ABOUT YOURSELF AND ABOUT THE THINGS THAT YOU CAN DO GO AHEAD AND TAKE WHAT YOU REALLY WANT.

when i was in Varadero in March for 2 weeks, I’d head downtown everynight to enjoy a club called calle 62. wa about a 45 min walk - on an average night i’d hear it about 4 time - “hey you want a cheeka” Best to keep on walking and rememebr the old saying “Money makes the world go round”

Brent - 18 October 2006 07:20 PM

It’s easy to say she’s just like all the rest. It’s easy to say she only wants your money. That is the cliché. The rest of the cliché is that you only want her for sex. Sounds like that’s not true. The situation in Cuba is completely different than in anywhere else in the world. If you’d met a pro in the US I’d say run and hide, then get tested. There is a difference in Cuba. There is no other way to make money. Nothing. Nothing. You can’t just get a job and make ends meet. There are some women in Cuba working every night. But the vast majority are forced to work once in a while to make some money. You can tell the difference. In Cuba good people are forced to do things they wouldn’t have to do elsewhere out of necessity. Survival. Plain and simple. Put yourself in her shoes before you just take the easy way out and buy into the cliché. Love is hard to find.

Well said!

Well said!

this only means that travelers should always be careful at all times! wherever they are and whoever the people they meet in different places